1) Words are used to convey meaning and our intents. At times it's easy and straight forward like a book, but book comes in many flavors. Take a look at my prior postings and you might be able to comprehend my selection of words, their resonance and phonetics and esp. their interactions with each other. Sometimes it's in English. Sometimes it's in Vietnamese. And sometimes it's a mixture of both. But overall and similar to books, they can come in quickly and bluntly or they can be diffused and have multiple silhouettes. Like you, some members will comprehend it superficially, others see their nuances but others still may be scratching their behind. Thus, my usage and assemblage of words you clearly assume and has trotted down your own bias pathway. No bigly ... been called worse! And as stated before, if you can't comprehend all of the nuances, then you shouldn't assume!
2) "For example, if someone calls you toilet-mouthed asshole, how do you feel? ....and can't take any negative feedback"
... A) As stated before, sure, I can get a little emotional but would never loose my composure in the heat of the movement
... B) Been called worse. No bigly! Hoe Hoe Hoe
... C) If I truly can't take the negative comments, why am I still around and persevere? Did you see me get emotional?
3) "or may be you purposely do not want to address my original point? If so, then what's the use of all that brain smart and logic?" and "Again, it's how you show your lack of respect toward another member's opinion is they key thing here!"
... A) Again, your own bias has lead you down a closed pathway with shutter fully deployed. You only see the trees and not the forest!
... B) The KEY HERE IS RACISM and the people who advance it (accidentally or blindly)! You have assume the other member's intent as well as my intent.
... C) Now do you understand ... You assume too much!
Again, lip service will do more harm than good when it comes to racism, misogyny, bigotry and demagoguery as history have already shown! And these are also facts ... no dissection needed! But open mind and analysis are a prerequisite in defense!
If you can't comprehend all of the nuances, then you shouldn't assume! As stated, some soul searching and some basic analysis would benefit you! Less assumptions wouldn't hurt.
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